I'm glad you're here...
Imagine the combination of deep seeded personal trauma, emotionally traumatized parents, struggles with self-medication, opposing processing disorders, and hormone issues to boot this is the recipe for disaster when face to face with a monster tantrum so I feel like the best way to introduce myself is really to say ... If I can do it YOU CAN TOO, I'm here to make SURE of it.
I Am A Cycle Breaker
I'm not a clinician by choice although the closer I get to 50 the more I like the sounds of Dr Bond, I didn't like the idea of studies assigned to one school of thought or getting a certificate and stopping there so instead I've dedicated my whole life to learning. I've spent well over a decade helping people heal, and after spending almost 20 years traveling and studying healing modalities across the globe.
In the last 3 years alone I've worked with over 2,000 families the more families in more diverse places I worked with the more I realized that most parenting issues are unified. Most stem from a lack of 2 fundamental needs; confidence and safety.
True healing comes from addressing the root causes of our limiting belief systems and learning to reprogram our minds.
My methods are not just about managing symptoms; they are about deep, soulful healing that transforms lives. I developed a program called "Soul Re-programming," which is what I used in this program here. I integrate emotional healing, guided hypnosis, self-regulation techniques, and trauma-informed therapies to help parents not only survive but thrive. My approach is grounded in the belief that healing ourselves is the first step to becoming the parents our children need. In our work together, you will focus on enhancing your own emotional intelligence and self-regulation skills.
By mastering these tools, you not only improve your own well-being but also pass these essential skills onto your children through co-regulation.
This process helps raise strong, emotionally intelligent children and strengthens the bond between you and your children.
We heal the next generation by giving the tools and skills that were very likely not gifted to us, and this can bring up a lot of feelings as we do so, it's not enough to break the cycle externally we also need to break in ourselves so we can show true healing ensure it stops with us.
I always stumble over the idea of telling my story, I truly feel like the process, this program this method is not about me at all, I'm the vessel that makes your amazing transformations possible.
Plus, like many of my sisters, I genuinely don't know where to start. I'll just start by saying that I'm glad you're here and I don't think it's a coincidence we're meeting (and definitely not through SEO I'm horrendous at it). My story is a long one that involves being raised by a traumatized mother and suffering years of child sexual abuse, late discovery neurodivergence, issues with sobriety, and a series of health and hormone issues that lead to one burnt-out woman and one very reactive mother.
Being a parent came naturally to me, but being a calm parent was something I had to work hard on as my beautiful baby girl grew up and became 110% warrior queen Sass.